耽误: to delay, to hold up, to waste time, to interfere with...
人间: the human world, the earth...
成人: adult...
大爷: (coll.) father's older brother, uncle, term of respect for older man...
宁可: preferably, one would prefer to...(or not to...), would rather, (would) be better to, (to pick) the lesser of two evils...
热心: enthusiasm, zeal, zealous, zest, enthusiastic, ardent, warmhearted...
许: to allow, to permit, to promise, to praise, somewhat, perhaps...
陷: pitfall, trap, to get stuck, to sink, to cave in, to frame (false charge), to capture (a city in battle), to fall (to the enemy), defect...
拽: to pull, to tug at (sth)...
今后: hereafter, henceforth, in the future, from now on...
